Some kids may think their own mothers and fathers are too old. As a matter of fact, almost every kid hears their parents say, “During my time …” or “Kids these days are so …”? Chances are, your parents are expressing some kind of generation gap that they cannot get a hold on as well. Maybe, your mom had given birth to you in her late 40s that the gap between you and her is quite wide. But there really isn’t anything wrong with that.
Studies have proven that the best time to raise children is within the ages of 40 up. The only problem is, mothers at this age are often caught up in their own angst and troubles that they sometimes fail to keep up with their children. Hence, the generation gap widens. Also read: Is this babysitter service right for you?
Feeling the generation gap is inevitable in cases where your parents are already in their prime age. Unfortunately, some parents can be too busy that they forget how it is to be a child again. Basically for parents to understand kids, they have to be like them at least once in a while. Ideally, it is best for parents to take time to find out the things kids enjoy best. Listen to their kind of music, look at the clothes they like to wear, and get to know the friends they keep. The children will, definitely, see a better side of them as they transform into children as well. Also read: Save money on sitters
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Of course all of the above requires that every parent spend ‘quality’ time with their kids. In this day and age, everybody is just too busy to stop and smell the roses. Hence, a lot of parents tend to forget that they also need a break. But if these breaks could help them stay attuned to their kids and bridge the generation gap, it should be worth all the effort.
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If all parents make an effort to understand their kids, building a lasting and understanding relationship is not, in any way, impossible. Hence, the generation gap may only be evident in years. A strong relationship, respect and love can narrow the generation gap. Also read: Find experienced babysitters & nannies to fill all your care needs
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Do you have any tips on how to narrow the generation gap? Feel free to share your thoughts.
A nerd at heart (haha), I have been following and analyzing the world of online sitters for a couple of years now and have seen a lot of innovations and changes in this market. In between taking care of my loving (and demanding 😜) family and writing, I also do a lot of “traveling” on the Travel Channel and Discovery Channel. Read More
My son saw a cassette tape in one of the boxes stored in our attic. He asked me what it was and I explained to him what it was. He just could not imagine how music could come out of it.
It takes a lot of effort to understand kids nowadays. They’re too advanced.
With all the innovations in technology, it’s hard to really ignore the generation gap. My kids are just too techy that I feel left behind.
I have a daughter and she likes to invite her girlfriends over all the time. I make sure I spend some time with them so I know what they’re up to. Of course, I do it in a chummy way but this is one way for me to know more about what daughter does with her friends.
I gave birth to my first child when I was 38 years old. Now, she is six years and navigates the computer effortlessly. I really get amazed by it. I guess that’s a generation gap in thinking.
I make sure to understand my son all the time. I don’t just say “yes” or “okay” to get things over and done with. I really try to understand what he says. It gets pretty challenging at times.
You’re doing the right thing. It takes a lot to really listen to the kids; pateince, patience, and more patience! 🙂
OMG…I say that all the time. Honestly, it’s so hard to understand why kids spend hours in front of the tv to play games. I don’t get the games at all. I used to spend the whole day reading a book. That was more affordable! Obviously, that’s a clear sign of generation gap. LOL
Nowadays, it’s so hard to keep up with the kids. With all the techy stuff, I really need to be on my toes to speak their language.